The Celebrant4u - Civil Marriage Celebrant

Your devoted Celebrant for Weddings, Name Giving, Renewal of Vows and Commitment Ceremonies.

Reaffirmation/Renewal of Vows, Special Anniversaries

Reaffirmation or Renewal of Vows Ceremonies are

celebrated for many reasons.


Sometimes people choose this ceremony to celebrate

a significant wedding anniversary

(anything from 5 years to 50, or more!) or a landmark birthday.

Often a couple wishes to re-enact their marriage ceremony

with family and friends who were not able

 to attend the original wedding, if for example,

the couple married overseas.

A Renewal of Vows can also be celebrated when a particularly difficult patch in a marriage has passed, and to rekindle the marriage commitment.


The Renewal of Vows is not only an expression of love for each other, but also a remembrance of  times past and of a renewal of hopes for the future.

A Renewal of Vows could be to re-enact a couple’s  wedding day with their old friends and new friends,  as well as family,  and possibly their children, to share their life, their history and love story in their latter years.  
 
And sometimes, just because it feels like a good thing to do!

Whatever the reason, I will work with you to create a unique ceremony you will cherish. You can include any part of your original ceremony that you wish, including special music, and, if possible even invite members of the original wedding party to be involved. I will provide you with a variety of readings and ideas to help inspire you, and you may ask those close to you to contribute also, by sharing their stories and memories, giving readings, or reciting poems they have written specially for the occasion.

Generally, for such a ceremony, we spend a little time reflecting on your history, revisiting  important events along the way, eg, the birth of children, relocation of your home, and other key milestones and events that have taken place over the years. If you wish to exchange gifts or eternity rings to mark the occasion, this can be incorporated into the ceremony. If appropriate, your children or grandchildren can take a special part in the celebration ,too.

Renewing your vows is a wonderful way to look back over the years you've shared with each other, honouring and celebrating the good times and the challenges, and is a lovely way to give thanks to each other and to those nearest and dearest, as you make your vows and wishes for the years you’ve yet to share.

There are no legal requirements for a Renewal of Vows so no birth or marriage certificates are required.  The ceremony is usually very personal  it is the tale of a couple's love and their commitment to see each other through the rest of life's journey.


To mark the event a certificate is issued which shows your original marriage date, place ,etc including details of this celebration. As with your original Certificate of Marriage, there is space for your and your witnesses signatures, and mine as officiate.

I will also give you a booklet containing the ceremony as a keepsake.

If you are interested in holding a Reaffirmation/Renewal of Vows ceremony, simply contact me by phone or email and I will be happy to discuss your ideas and options with you.

Once you book the date, I will provide you with pages of :

Readings, sample vows to choose from,rings vows, renewal of vows sample scripts, songs for the ceremony,guidelines and ideas towards the script.

What may the ceremony contain?

 

A Re-Affirmation of Vows ceremony may perhaps contain any/all of the following;

 

  • Pre-ceremony music
  • Entrance music
  • Introduction and welcome
  • Acknowledgement of any absent friends or                           deceased relatives
  • Acknowledgement of children from the marriage
  • Poetry reading/extracts/songs/original pieces
  • History highlights/recollections of couples                                 ( relatives/friends who attended the first                             wedding ceremony)
  • Renewal of vows
  • Interactive symbols: eg re-dedication of rings ,                             – giving of new rings/or gifts, exchanging of flowers etc
  • Signing of Certificate/signing of witnesses
  • Declaration and presentation of couple to guests
  • Closing words of congratulations

What does my fee cover?

  • Complete choice of personalized ceremony.
  • A package of information containing sample ceremonies, readings/poetry, rituals, music/songs etc.
  • Unlimited access to me regarding your ceremony.
  • A rehearsal at your chosen venue. (if required)
  • A commemorative copy of your ceremony.
  • A certificate of Renewal of Vows .
  • Appreciation certificates for any ceremonial participants eg readers, ring bearers.
  • A guarantee that I will arrive 30 minutes before your ceremony is due to commence.
  • A guarantee of total familiarity with your ceremony and also that my part will be read with total interest and sincerity.
  • To the best of my ability I will dress to suit the occasion.
  • Use of a PA system.(including a CD player)

Here are the corresponding symbols and gifts for each Anniversary:

1st Wedding Anniversary -- paper

2nd Wedding Anniversary -- cotton

3rd Wedding Anniversary -- leather

4th Wedding Anniversary -- flowers or fruits

5th Wedding Anniversary -- wood

6th Wedding Anniversary -- sugar or candy

7th Wedding Anniversary -- wool

8th Wedding Anniversary -- bronze

9th Wedding Anniversary -- pottery

10th Wedding Anniversary -- tin

11th Wedding Anniversary -- steel

12th Wedding Anniversary -- linen or silk

13th Wedding Anniversary -- lace

14th Wedding Anniversary -- agate

15th Wedding Anniversary -- crystal

16th Wedding Anniversary -- silver hollowware, peridot

17th Wedding Anniversary -- furniture, watches

18th Wedding Anniversary -- porcelain, cat’s-eye

19th Wedding Anniversary -- bronze, aquamarine

20th Wedding Anniversary -- china

21st Wedding Anniversary -- brass or nickel

22nd Wedding Anniversary -- copper

23rd Wedding Anniversary -- silver plate

24th Wedding Anniversary -- musical instruments

25th Wedding Anniversary -- silver

26th Wedding Anniversary -- original pictures

27th Wedding Anniversary -- sculpture

28th Wedding Anniversary -- orchids

29th Wedding Anniversary -- new furniture

30th Wedding Anniversary -- pearl

31st Wedding Anniversary -- timepieces

32nd Wedding Anniversary --conveyances (including automobiles)

33rd Wedding Anniversary -- amethyst

34th Wedding Anniversary -- opal

35th Wedding Anniversary -- coral or jade

36th Wedding Anniversary -- bone china

37th Wedding Anniversary -- alabaster

38th Wedding Anniversary -- beryl and tourmaline

39th Wedding Anniversary -- lace

40th Wedding Anniversary -- ruby or garnet

41st Wedding Anniversary -- land

42nd Wedding Anniversary -- improved real estate

43rd Wedding Anniversary -- trips

44th Wedding Anniversary -- groceries

45th Wedding Anniversary -- sapphire

50th Wedding Anniversary -- gold

55th Wedding Anniversary -- emerald or turquoise

60th Wedding Anniversary -- diamond

65th Wedding Anniversary -- diamond

70th Wedding Anniversary -- platinum

75th Wedding Anniversary -- diamond

 

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